FAQ
Short answers for how Sodality works. Open a question to read more.
How do I sign in?
Use your email and a one-time link, or email and a password. You can set or change a password in Settings. You must be 13 or older.
What is a circle?
A circle is a community. Public circles are easy to find and join. Private circles show in search and need an admin’s yes. Hidden circles stay with people who have an invite or link.
How do friends and messages work?
You can send a friend request when you share a circle. Direct messages work with a shared circle or an accepted friendship. After you are friends you can send files in a direct message, unless they turned file receiving off. Each circle also has its own group chat.
How do I find circles near me?
On Home and Circles, use Local, Regional, or Worldwide. Local matches your ZIP, city, or about 50 km. You can type a ZIP in Settings or tap Find my location.
What is Market?
Market is for goods, freebies, wanted posts, and HaggleHub trades. Listings can be local or inside a circle. Pickup first. You must be 18 or older to list or to ask about a listing. Add a ZIP or city in Settings to see local listings.
How do I leave a circle?
Open the circle’s feed and scroll to the bottom. Use Leave circle. You can keep friends from that circle or unfriend them when you leave.
What if I am 17 or under?
You must be 13 or older. Ages 17 and under need a parent account on this site. After the parent says yes, they can see your activity and, if they want, set a daily time cap and quiet hours.
Do I have to use kids controls?
No. Adults start with kids controls off — I don’t have kids. They turn on if someone 17 or under lists you as their parent. If you approve, you can see their activity and set screen time. If you have no kids on this site, you can turn them off again.
Can a parent limit how long a child uses the app?
Yes. After you approve a child, Family has Screen time: a daily minute cap and quiet hours. Time counts while the app is open. Quiet hours use the child’s time zone, or a clock you pick. When time is up they see a Time is up page until the next day or quiet hours end.
What is an alias?
Ages 17 and under pick an alias — a name circles and other members see. Your parent still sees your legal name. Pick a suggestion or type your own in Settings.
Can I hide my real name?
Yes. In Settings, choose Hide my real name. Other people see only your @handle. Ages 17 and under still use an alias unless that box is checked. A parent still sees the legal name.
Why does my address say Earth, Milkyway?
For people 17 and under, the address on your public profile and in search is Earth, Milkyway. Your ZIP stays in Settings so local circles can still match.
How do circle votes work?
Members can vote to take down a post, remove someone from the circle, or silence them for 30 days. A majority of active members, at least two votes, makes it happen. You can take your vote back by tapping again. Circle owners stay.
What if I stop visiting a circle?
If you go 30 days without opening a circle, you get a system notice. Open it within 5 more days to stay. After that you leave the circle. Your posts stay. Friendships that started in that circle end. Opening the circle resets the clock. Owners stay.
How do I report something?
On a post or profile, use Report. Circle staff and this site’s admins review reports.
How do I change language?
Sodality follows your browser language until you pick one. Change it on your profile. Use my browser language follows the browser again. Posts in another language are translated into yours when translation is on for this site — unless the languages already match. You can show the original.
How does time zone work?
We read it from this device unless you pick one in Settings. It is used for your clock and, for kids, daily time limits.
Who can see my profile?
A private profile is for you, circle-mates, and friends. A public profile is for any signed-in person.
Can I hide my city on a public profile?
Yes. In Settings, with a public profile, you can hide your city (ZIP is hidden too) or hide city and state/region. Your country still shows. When anything is hidden, INCOGNITO appears on the address line. Your full place stays in Settings so local circles can still match.
Can I stay out of search?
Yes. In Settings, choose Keep me out of search. People in your circles still see your posts there. They cannot find you or those posts with Search.